<p>Sorry if my ealier remark seemed a wee bit too harsh.  My borderline tendencies is letting me down when I dont get enough sleep. I will control my borderline behavior. Please carry on. It limits me so much. What really can spoil a somewhat timid relationship is a bad sexlife. Just try to pull it all togehter. Get therapy. Nobody shold deal with panic attacks alone. What really can rip appart a partnership is uncontrolled pms.</p>