<p>I never  comprehend that parrents have poor results when trying to to change behavior. In fact Richard Wiseman have presented  some of the strategies that can be used to better our  behaviours. A great number of others have been teached recently. In a book  Irving Gottesman show how to do this. I am also trying to integrate  Individual psychology.I am sadly not a counsellor but I follow closely Evolutionary psychology.</p>