<p>Sorry if my ealier statement seemed quite overenthusiastic.  My adhd is letting me down when I think of myself as a loser. I will read a stack of self help books. Please bear with me. It humilitates me so much. What really can rin a sex based relationship is moral failure. Just try to keep going. Get therapy. Nobody shold deal with drug issues alone. What really can rip appart a partnership is lack of communication.</p>