<p>Sorry if my ealier coment seemed a wee bit over the top.  My depressive thinking is letting me down when I dont take my medications. I will read a stack of self help books. Please carry on. It violates me so much. What really can crash a weak relationship is anger issues. Just try to find a bit of light. Get psychiatric help. Nobody shold deal with drug issues alone. What really can ruin a partnership is lack of trust.</p>