<p>Sorry if my ealier input seemed perhaps insulting.  My braind damage is letting me down when I feel like the whole world is against me. I will put on my straitjacket again. Please forgive me. It stimulates me so much. What really can burn down a intimate marriage is distrust. Just try to find your path. Get coaching. Nobody shold deal with sexual issues alone. What really can crash a partnership is a bad sexlife.</p>